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Name Mistress Black
Geboren 28.05.1994
Größe 166
Schuhe 38
Ansprache Mistress Black
Arbeitet seit 01.11.2018
Sprachenenglisch, italienisch, spanisch
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I am Mistress Black, an international Mistress of Spanish origin who organizes regular tours in different European cities. I have always been nomadic, moving independently from city to city. For a period of time, I will also be receiving in Berlin, working for the first time from within a studio.
My interest in BDSM is rooted primarily in its psychological dimension, which I consider the foundation before any physical practice. I am currently in the final stage of my training in Psychology, and part of my journey also included studies in Philosophy and years of circus performing. These experiences shaped my sensitivity toward symbolic, anthropological and existential perspectives. This is why I understand BDSM as something ritual, structured and profoundly human.
For me, the distinction between Dominatrix and Mistress is meaningful. I embody both dimensions, yet I recognize myself primarily as a Mistress. I carry the authority of a Dominatrix within the dynamic, but what defines me more deeply is the symbolic position of the Mistress — a role that can extend beyond a single scene and sustain continuity in the exchange. It is not the latex or the whip that defines the dynamic. Anyone can put on latex and hold a crop. You would kneel even if I were wearing a simple pajama — because what moves you is not the aesthetic, but what I embody for you.
Some have described my dominance as sweetly sadistic. I understand what they mean.
There is softness in my tone, patience in my rhythm — but beneath it, there is precision. I do not need to raise my voice to dominate you. Loudness is often a loss of composure, and I do not lose composure.
You feel my authority not because I demand it, but because you do not want to disappoint me. Because something in you wants to rise to the level I set. Your submission does not come from fear. It comes from an intrinsic, almost visceral desire to show yourself fully — to kneel before me not out of weakness, but because you understand exactly where you stand.
I value the submissive who experiences surrender as genuine desire — where humiliation, discipline, stillness or structure become reinforcement rather than punishment. When these elements are chosen, they do not diminish you. They sharpen you.
Many different kinds of people come to me. They arrive from different places within themselves — from restraint, from shame, from longing, from discipline, from parts of their own desire they have not fully explored. Others seek clarity, structure, or a more conscious encounter with who they are. Many stand somewhere in between.
I believe BDSM can become a healing space when held with awareness, structure and ethical responsibility. In my space, desire is not judged — it is allowed to surface consciously. What is brought into awareness can be integrated. What is integrated can transform.
Every dynamic reveals a structure already present in you. I do not create it. I bring it to the surface.
There is a precise moment when surrender stops being an idea and becomes physical. I see it when you kneel before me and your pupils are fully dilated. That is where it turns raw. No calculation. No performance.
When my foot moves slowly across your face, brushing your lips before descending to rest against your chest. Beneath my sole, I feel your heartbeat accelerate. It is not force that interests me, but the shift inside you — your breath deepening, your saliva thickening, your body abandoning the illusion of distance.
You are not helpless. You are open. There is strength in you, and you decide to yield it to me. I see it in your gaze — there is admiration, but also awareness. You know you are being seen fully, in your rawest state, and you remain kneeling.
I identify as a lesbian in my personal life. In session, however, I receive guests of all genders. My work is strictly BDSM and fetish-oriented; I do not offer sexual services. Nevertheless, my sessions can be deeply erotic and intense, in a dimension that transcends the purely physical.
I welcome women, men, non-binary guests and couples.
Neurodivergent individuals are welcome, with sensitivity toward their needs and rhythms.
I also offer double domination sessions with other Mistresses, as well as lesbian cuckolding dynamics with my partner, for those who wish to explore these experiences within a clear, ethical and consensual framework.
My path as a Dom began in the private sphere, as a personal impulse before becoming professional.
Later, while working as an aerial acrobat in a horror circus, I met another artist who was a professional dominatrix. A creative and vital connection developed between us, marking a decisive turning point in my journey. In that context, my performative dimension and BDSM began to integrate organically. Scene, body, presence and authority merged into a single language. It was during that period that I began receiving clients and realized that what had once been intimate was taking shape as a vocation.
Over time, I felt the need to sustain my practice with greater depth and responsibility. I decided to begin my studies in Psychology, among other reasons, to better understand the dynamics unfolding within sessions. I realized that people were placing real vulnerability in my hands — their histories, their deeper narratives, sensitive parts of their identity. I did not want to remain at the surface of the game.
Since then, I have devoted years to study, research and ethical reflection, shaping a practice that is both grounded and conscious. For me, BDSM is play and pleasure, but it can also become a space of transformation when held with structure and responsibility. As my work matured, I also began mentoring and training other professional Mistresses in the development of their own paths, sharing both practical experience and ethical perspective.
My career grew organically and internationally, leading me to work across different European cities. What began as an intimate impulse evolved into a consolidated vocation that continues to deepen over time.